One of the main challenges of online dating, especially if it's online dating through craigslistis that there's always that doubt if the person you're talking to is real or not. Thankfully, there are quick and easy ways to spot if the woman you met at a Filipina dating site has the best of intentions. Here are some of them:
1. A cell phone conversation while on webcam
This is very important, and if you do this, at least you'll know that the person you're chatting with is the same person you're talking to on the phone. Be gentle when you talk, because Filipinas are big on "feeling" the tone of your voice.
2. Get her home address
While this may seem easy, most men don't do this. If you have plans of taking your Filipina girlfriend on a fiance visa, the US government will require proof of your relationship. One thing, the government prefers real letters, not emails or chat logs since postmarked letters are very difficult, if not impossible to fake.
3. Get her family's home address
If your Filpina girlfriend lives away from her parents, get her parent's address as well. Simply tell her that you want to show to her family that you are serious about her.
4. Do the "My Friend Interview"
Although it costs money, hiring a private investigator is one of the most effective ways to check if your Filipina friend. Out on the internet you will find cyber bride investigators, who will do the "meet my friend interview" for you. If the investigator you hire is any good, a fellow Filipina will be sent to check out your friend. All you have to do is tell your Filipina girlfriend that you have a Filipina friend that you would like her to meet.
5. Conduct a background check
You may or may not tell your girl that you're doing a background check on her, however, it's been proven that the way she reacts will tell you if you proceed or not. If you get an "I am insulted" retort, you should be careful. Of course, if you decide on telling her, make sure you do tactfully.
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